Built Solid

As a man I can only speak on this from a mans' point of view, but I'm sure there's a womans' side...

It ain't rocket science.  Good wisdom would say before making a declaration on something about anything, viewing the complete ball of wax will allow a person to carefully distinguish the authenticity of the existing circumstances.  Along with that, even though the individual is responsible for the decisions of what their hands will or will not do and what will come out of their mouth; causality cannot be denied.  And regardless of the reasons, the faults, even the excuses, a bottom line always, I mean always is there. 


If you purpose in your heart to be a Christian man (single or married; father or childless) who tirelessly works to live by God's Word, this reality for you can give your [Christian and non-Christian] friends, family members, and associates' the opportunity to be irresponsible and sometimes plain lazy to say the least.  They are never at fault and you always have to suck it up.  Without question it's frustrating.  Certainly it's nerve racking.  Particularly for the leader or the husband grouped with Kingdom people, it can be burnt-steak tough.  But that's why you received the Holy Spirit so you can be guided into all truth (John 16:13); encouraging you and reminding you that the hard hat of ministry never comes off.

Bruh, it's so important to remain Spiritually guided.  Recognizing that you, like every other Christian is [supposed to be] a missionary in some shape or form, it's essential to be led into duty.  The call doesn't disappear because you get fed up, and you will get to that point if you're not filled up.  Additionally, a few things can happen if that is the case.  One, you can be scared to work your mission field; and because of your fear, knowledge, attitude, or whatever it is,  you will label your mission to not be what God has for you via your perception (Jonah 1:1-3).  Another negative may be your disobedience can manifest itself into your removal from the position (1 Samuel 15:26).  Lastly, poor interpretation of the situation can direct you into grave mistakes (Matthew 25:24-26).  In all of these instances, it could spell sho' nuff trouble for you.  But because God's Will is for you to be a vessel for Him to other people (Acts 1:8), it's actually trouble for them.

But you, powerful man of God, have no reason to operate in such fashion.  For as being directed by the Helper (John 15:26) you can know that the situations you are in are not designed for frustration, confusion, or destruction.  Instead, they are chances to demonstrate the love and peace of Christ, which is the opening for assisting someone who doesn't know Him to do so; or for the wounded Christian soldier to regain his or her fighting strength.  And since you are certain that everything is an exercise of triumph for you, who has a loving relationship with God, there is no actual loss even when you feel defeated (Romans 8:28).  However, if your view is one of losing, you probably are not looking at the entire ball.

They lean on you because you were built solid...

Peace